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Originally Posted by nowthen
remind me again, WHY are you getting married then? my wife is the one person in the world i DO expect to understand my problems. she is my partner, together we are stronger. i honestly think you both need to grow up a lot.
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Sorry, but he was not raised with a low self-esteem or in an abusive household. Until you've experienced that, you can't understand or even begin to fathom what kind of problems someone has after that.
The reason my sex life is so lame, I realise now, is from 1) birth control hormones and 2) very, very low self-esteem brought on from all of the stress I still feel from my childhood.
If your wife had this happen to her, and you say you "understand" her...wow, I don't believe it, is all I have to say.
If not, then you shouldn't pass judgments on others.
Otherwise, nwlinkvxd understands me as fully as he can. He loves me for my flaws, and I love him for his flaws. I don't want to jump down his throat because he is impatient, and he doesn't want to just dump me and never speak to me again (a previous suggestion) because he loves me despite my faults!