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joeb1 · 03-18-2005, 05:55 AM

Ok... let me first start by saying that I truly feel for you both. There are obviously a lot of issues that need to be addressed. And it will take time. You two are so young. Please just slow down for a minute.

LPM has a lot of issues that she needs to get cleared up. First and foremost is loving herself. No.. not in a sexual way. But loving herself enough to stop, and take care of herself. Whether it is the situation with her past, her current home life, making these appointments. And really communicating with the doctors. She looks as if she is taking the right steps. All these things will build her self esteem. Taking care of yourself is a wonderful thing. And should be priority number one!

And for her boyfiend situation. Man.. you know..I remember the hormones. But I also remember that it was controllable. You make the choice to be the way you are. Yeah so your libido is strong. Is it stronger than your mind? Does it give you the right to treat a woman you say you love that way? No No No. Shame on you! There is some growing up that needs to be done here. I know you are 20 yrs old. Are you sure you are ready for marriage?
You seem like a great guy who is headed in the right direction, I am just not sure you are getting there the correct way. Please support LPM as much as you can. Backing off on the sex is a good start. Emotionally she really needs someone there for her right now! Let these other issues get resolved before putting your hurculean sex drive back into play.

03-18-2005, 05:55 AM	#108 (permalink)
joeb1 Crazy Location: Over Yonder	Ok... let me first start by saying that I truly feel for you both. There are obviously a lot of issues that need to be addressed. And it will take time. You two are so young. Please just slow down for a minute. LPM has a lot of issues that she needs to get cleared up. First and foremost is loving herself. No.. not in a sexual way. But loving herself enough to stop, and take care of herself. Whether it is the situation with her past, her current home life, making these appointments. And really communicating with the doctors. She looks as if she is taking the right steps. All these things will build her self esteem. Taking care of yourself is a wonderful thing. And should be priority number one! And for her boyfiend situation. Man.. you know..I remember the hormones. But I also remember that it was controllable. You make the choice to be the way you are. Yeah so your libido is strong. Is it stronger than your mind? Does it give you the right to treat a woman you say you love that way? No No No. Shame on you! There is some growing up that needs to be done here. I know you are 20 yrs old. Are you sure you are ready for marriage? You seem like a great guy who is headed in the right direction, I am just not sure you are getting there the correct way. Please support LPM as much as you can. Backing off on the sex is a good start. Emotionally she really needs someone there for her right now! Let these other issues get resolved before putting your hurculean sex drive back into play. __________________ Disco Duck...