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Originally Posted by lindseylatch
or come to grips with the fact that it's HER problem, not yours, that cause the breakup.
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Eric
1. I understand your situation with your friend - best of luck to both of you. That's an honorable approach to that particular situation.
2. In light of lindsey's comment above, the only other thing I can say is this:
You can not control the world. You can not change the world, until you've accepted the way it is. And after accepting the way things are, you can only control your reaction. Point being: it sounds to me like you're stuck in the place where you realize that you don't know what happened, but you really want to know. Facts are, you are in a position of limited knowledge, and it's probably going to stay that way, and it's beyond your control. Make up your mind to accept it, if you can. When thoughts about this girl enter your mind, don't fight them, but don't follow them. They will subside. You may not like my next advice, but any chance you know some attractive, sexually promiscuous womens? Because, well...that can serve as some pretty good therapy too. Not quite what lindsey had in mind, but....