Originally Posted by maleficent

But think about the girl as well... A few years back, the guy I was dating had a very well developed 14 year old daughter. Dad didn't seem to see past the little 5 year old in pig tails, but this girl looked 22, but still was 14, with the maturity to handle some situations of a 14 year old. We had all gone to a party, and she was in a swimsuit, she was a kid and wanted to go swimming. About an hour into the party, she completely disappeared, I went to find her and she was in the ladies room sobbing, that she was really scared and uncomfortable about the looks she was getting from her fathers friends. Some were leering, some were appreciative, they all looked. But she was not prepared for the looks she was getting, and didn't like it. As she put it, she can't help how she looks, why can't they just leave her alone.

Long talk later... She emerged from the restroom and was fine...

But.. rememeber.. that young teen that you are looking at... and lusting after... Doesn't always have the maturity to deal with the looks... She's still basically a child in the body of a woman.