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It sounds to me that you want to escape from the problem by coming here without him instead of facing the problem and opening up to him. He married you. That means he loves you. Does he know that the porn is bothering you this much? He's not just with you for sex, he's with you for it ALL, girl. Communicate with him how you feel, what your thoughts are, but remember to LISTEN TO HIS also. The whole communication barrier used to be a huge problem for me, after some practice, it's gotten easier. Separating yourself from him rings warning bells for me, because when I was feeling shitty in my marriage that's what I did. And we got divorced. (not because of sex, but because he was a real true-blue asshole when I DID try the whole communication thing). ANYWAY, I digress. Talk to him.
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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
.... absence makes me miss him more...
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