Hehe, I'll try to help.
Examine your opponent. It's a two part mechanism - the top strap with hooks and the bottom strap with the loops. Most men simply try to pull on the top strap which leads nowhere. You have to find a way to keep the bottom strap and its loops in place while your remove hooks from them.
It's easier to do while you are face to face and reaching behind her.
Use your right arm. It's easier to do if you reach around her left.
Method #1:
- Grab the top strap
- The tips of your fingers should feel the loops.
- Unhooking: pull top strap and its hooks out of the loops using your thumb. This is posible because your fingers are right against the loops thus keeping them in place. The motion is kind of like snaping your fingers.
Method #2
- Grab the top strap
- Press your thumb behind the hooks you feel though the fabric.
- Unhooking: using the thumb to keep both straps in place use your fingers to stretch the top strap pulling the hooks out of the loops.
Ok, so I suck at giving directions I'll be glad to clarify anything.
Good luck.