"I bet you know or at least met a bunch of people that you had NO idea were gay." I'm sure i have too, and i'm sure these people would have no problems being scoutmasters. Unless as Tophat suggests, they are bringing their dates to scout meetings (and even if they did it'd be completly unnecessary to introduce them as "my friend that i'm fucking"). At some point your "prospective gay scoutmasters" are the ones who made it an issue. Otherwise, like i said, it never would have been one. I never suggested gay men spend all their time talking about what it's like "banging" other men, and i never argued ones sexuality is not biological.
And the answer to your question tophat ( but should they have to pay if they are reasonably discreet about it?) is , no. How difficult is it to be discreet about your sexuality? If an adult is incapable of being "reasonably discreet", is it a biological problem, or a maladjusted, incapable of coming to terms with yourself problem. There is a reality to your sterotypical "gay" adult. I'm sure you can come up with your own sterotypes. Are all these stereotypes, in your words "biological", or is the biological influence STRICTLY limited to sexual preference?
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