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I believe you're in school - are you going through the school guys to get the outside referral? I also know that many universities have some manner of free counseling - at least for a certain number of sessions.

Seriously, for both you and your man - don't forget to give yourselves a break. Stress is a real bitch. Y'all are ahead of the game, really. You've got a problem, but you've recognized it. You're open to the possiblity (I would almost add strong probability) that it's symptomatic of a deeper issue, and you're working on it. I think you should be happy with your decision, and you should give yourselves a day or two off from worrying about this stuff.

edit another thing, don't you LPM specifically take this all on yourself. Some individual counselling is probably a good thing, but if linkx is open to it, it might be beneficial for both of you to participate in the sessions. 1. y'all are getting married, as you may have heard, and 2. some of his behavior in this situation, while being natural and somewhat normal in a sense (i don't know if the average guy pops a nut 3-5 times a day - my little buddy would probably throw a strike / work stoppage after a week or so if I pulled that on him, and would have when I was 20.) doesn't sound ideal from what I've read, and he may have some things he might want to work on / work out too.

best of luck.

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