I agree with sending the email, I don't think it is creepy at all as the uni email is public and there for that purpose, to look people up. However, where you went wrong I think is asking her out over email, light chatting through email then asking her for her number would have been better IMO. Then asking her out over the phone, or even treat it like you met her over the interenet and go from email, to IM, to #. I wouldn't be surprised if you DID read the signs right but she felt she was too busy to bother. It has been my experience that humans can lose interest pretty fast, or forget how they felt a couple weeks ago about someone they just met. Hope that makes sense, I really want to go into the psychology more but Im having difficulty saying it.
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