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Sex is so much more than the physical thing. What makes sex really good for the woman is the spiritual connection. I saw a post the other day (not sure what board) that showed how Viagra affected women. They had physical symptoms of being horny but no mental symptoms. Needless to say, it was mostly emotional for them. Now there are some medications that can cause dryness, etc, and these should be checked out, but I'm guessing that stress is the culprit here. When either partner is stressed (about the relationship, about life, about work, etc.) it can deeply affect the way you react to each other. A few years ago my wife and I had gotten into a routine. We had a date night established once a week where we would sit down and watch a movie together. It usually ended up with sex. We were doing it other nights of the week as well, but this was a constant. What we figured out is that this "planned" sex just wasn't as good as the times when it just happened. Now we just do it when we feel like it. It is frequent and hot almost every single time (4 to 5 times a week after 14 years of marriage)
Nwlinkvxd may love you deeply, but the constant sex can be overwhelming to a young woman who is still learning her way. Both of you need to slow down a bit and learn about the art of romance and seduction. It will serve both of you well in the future. The best sex organ we have is the brain. Use it and both of you will be much happier.
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