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I'm going to have a slightly different take on this, but one which I feel is essentially encapsulated in a lot of the advice y'all have received.
Chill Out
There's a lot going on - Petite sounds like she's got a lot of issues involving family, school, work, and linkx probably has some other issues as well. Add the "we're getting married" stuff, and it's a lot of stress. I know y'all want the problem solved, and let me add a double ditto to the "go see your ob/gyn - birth control is notorious for this type of thing, and i've seen it with previous friends/girlfiends/etc. In regards to the total situation, however, I would suggest backing down a little, try to relax, take deep breaths so on and so forth. If y'all are taking a break from sex, I would encourage you to try to see it as an opportunity to hang out and relax, stop and enjoy the place you're at in your lives, the fact you're alive, spring is almost here, etc - rather than view it as the "break from sex" such that the issue only intensifies, and a mountain becomes a really freaking huge mountain with serious potential for volcanic eruption, etc.
If it were me in the situation, i would tell myself to calm down and meditate on it a bit - you'll both still be there tomorrow, or in a month, etc - so what's the rush?
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