have you guys considered that just maybe you are not compatible? i mean if you are already at this stage and only 19 and 20, not even married yet, well, doesnt really look good does it? and i am not talking about the sex thing really, just the different planets you seem to inhabit....
i actually had the same situation with my first girlfriend, hell we were going to get married, the whole lot, but then eventually we both realised we were too young, and above all, not good enough together to make it work in the long run. HURT LIKE HELL at the time, but now a good few years on i can see we both did the right thing and now are both happy in different relationships.
dont flame me, just throwing it out there...
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