A lot of women don't like penetrative sex. A lot of guys REALLY like penatrative sex (I've yet to meet one that doesn't!) But you still have options to have you both come while trying to figure out how to get the penetration going!
LPD, When you give nwlinkvxd oral sex, do you try and put the entire shaft into your mouth, or just the head? I find that my gag reflex is a bit too strong to have my Love's dick all the way down my throat more than a couple of thrusts at a time, so I focus mainly on stimulating the head with my mouth. There's more nerves there, and you can use your hand and some flavoured lube (I suggest Oh My!'s cheesecake flavours) to work his shaft.
Then at the same time (or after, or before, or all of the above) nwlinkvxd can give you some clit stimulation.
Also, as Martel says, Depo Provera has a bit of a reputation for lowering libido, so you may want to try an alternate method of birth control as well.
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