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Originally Posted by danny_boy
Hey,
I have a great sex life, but the problem is, I am always the first one to make a move. I am the one to caress her, or initiate kissing. Now, once we start she's kinky and very horny, and we do EVERYTHING. It's just it bothers me that she never initiates sex..makes me feel she doesnt want it as bad as me, and is not as horny as me. We have discussed this repeatedly, and she said that she has no answer, but that I should not read into it.
Since our discussion, she initiated the very next day, and that made me feel weird, because I knew it was not natural.
We are getting married, I know she loves me, and we do have sex 5-6 times per week, and I know she enjoys it. Do many other guys find themselves initiating a lot ?
Any advice ?
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you have described my exact situation. word for word. it is really frustrating when i have to initiate almost every time. even when i know she wants to, I have to make the first move. even when we start to make out and get into foreplay it seems like i have to start everything. I like being in control, but i wish she would at least once on awhile.
The point about mentioning it to her is also dead on. I dont want to mention it because after that i would feel like she was only doing it because i mentioned it.
i am not sure what it is but it bothers me too.