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Originally Posted by maleficent
At this risk of offending both of you... I'll bring it up anyhow...
What about couples counseling? You two have made a committment to spend the rest of your lives together. Sex is going to be part of that life for a long time. You both deserve to get what you want and need, and right now you are both on opposite sides of the fence, maybe a third party to help you sort it out.
Are you planning to marry in a church? Maybe even talking to a minister as the neutral third party would help.
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No offense taken, and frankly, I've thought about it. Money is a huge issue, and I don't think either of our families would do much but laugh if we asked for money for counselling. We are both non-religious.
Also, we would both have to be in town together in order to get couples counselling. As you know, he comes home on weekends, and typically, doctors' offices are closed on weekends.