At this risk of offending both of you... I'll bring it up anyhow...
What about couples counseling? You two have made a committment to spend the rest of your lives together. Sex is going to be part of that life for a long time. You both deserve to get what you want and need, and right now you are both on opposite sides of the fence, maybe a third party to help you sort it out.
Are you planning to marry in a church? Maybe even talking to a minister as the neutral third party would help.
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