Originally Posted by *Nikki*

I think what doesn't help also is him complaining publicly about this issue between him and you.

I know if my fiance came on here and talked about our sexual problems, knowing I would read it, it would cause a great degree of distress on my part.

I don't want to offer any advice to you on this mearly because after reading his journal and your posts I think that the two of you should stop talking over the message board and start talking to each other.

I am not trying to be mean, but in this situation that is where the solution lies. You guys really need to sit down face to face and have a serious discussion as to what is happening between you two. More then just sex is at stake here.