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Originally Posted by *Nikki*
I think what doesn't help also is him complaining publicly about this issue between him and you.
I know if my fiance came on here and talked about our sexual problems, knowing I would read it, it would cause a great degree of distress on my part.
I don't want to offer any advice to you on this mearly because after reading his journal and your posts I think that the two of you should stop talking over the message board and start talking to each other.
I am not trying to be mean, but in this situation that is where the solution lies. You guys really need to sit down face to face and have a serious discussion as to what is happening between you two. More then just sex is at stake here.
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That's the problem- WE DO. We do ALL THE TIME. It is only AFTER we talk that we end up posting here!
Maybe this is just an impossible cause. Maybe it will just take time and effort. Maybe this will end after all our major stresses are resolved (family, work/school at same time, and distance!).