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You've mentioned the pain during sex before, and the response you've gotten has been the same. Go to a doctor and get yourself checked out. Pain during intercourse isn't normal and can signal that there might be a problem (This is not said to worry you, but it's said out of concern for you)
Is your lowered sex drive normal, or is it a recent phenomenon? ie has something changed in your life recently, ie new birth control or new medication that's changed it.
Your family situation is also adding a lot of stress in your life, which will affect your sex drive, you need to find it in you to get away from that.
He's asked you to marry him. You... The person... To spend the rest of your life with him... The rest of your life includes life outside of the bedroom, ya know, the good times and bad times... He is supposed to love you for the bad times to and the times where he's not getting as much sex as he'd like.
You can learn how to "get him off" with a handjob, if you want to.
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