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Originally Posted by la petite moi
Very seriously, sometimes it doesn't feel like it.
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Have you had very open conversations about this? The reason I say very open is because sometimes it can be hard to be completely honest, even with a loved one.
Also, sex should not hurt like that. Unless you are pretty petite and he is enormous, have you had a pap smear recently? I'm not trying to say this will fix your sex issues, but you should do this for your health.
If you are not as into sex as he is (aside from the potential health issues), be upfront and tell him. What he decides after that is his choice. You cannot choose for him, he has to decide what is ultimitely more important to him and you should not feel guilty for his choices. I am a big proponent of everything on the table, everyone aware, and everyone accountable for their own choices.
He must care deeply for you, I've seen some of the things he says in chat and that did not come from a selfish, sex-driven man.