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I'm sorry about the situation you're in. It's obviously tough. As a married man myself who has been tempted, I have to say hold off indefinitely. There really is no reasonable excuse for cheating. You hjave urges, we all do, but we have to ber the master of those urges. They are not in charge. I don't run people off the road for flipping me off as they cut me off, so you shouldn't cheat. Agreed with above in that you should speak at length with your wife about what lies beneith this. I don't know how you feel about your wife, but you took the vows so you owe her. The biggest factor in this? Your kids. Every big dicision I've made since I was blessed with a child has always been in the best interest (in my opinion) of my daughter. Where we live, how often I work, how often I see certian friends, what church I do or don't go to, and how I act as a whole is entirely based on how I should morally act and that gives my daughter the best example. If you show "Betty" the best night in her life, what kind of a role model will you be for your kids?
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