Wow, I really should have given a bit more information, I guess. Firstly, by "came across" I mean it is out in the open, (even opened to the past week) on our table by the phone. Not hidden in a drawer or under her mattress. I don't feel I was "violating" her privacy. Secondly, we are very open with each other. We have shared details with each other about our partners and encounters. Thirdly, I am baffled because this is something I have never thought of doing. It seems a bit obsessive to me. I am not criticizing, just curious if anyone else has done this.
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