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Originally Posted by aberkok
Astrocloud, you need to break the problem down into chunks. Nobody ever got anywhere by saying: "I don't like my life, I have to change." You need to figure out 3 or 4 specific things you'd like to change and pick one to begin with. Focus on this one thing, not worrying too much about the other things which bother you.
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^Good advice!^
I suggest taking one of your vices per week and leaving it. Tell yourself that you are through. No more.... Some people have a hard time dealing with emptional events in their lives. Adding drugs or alcohol can magnify the feelings and make them appear to be more than they really are. I thought that I had lived a very hard life until I became aware of other peoples life histories. Now my experiences are minimized in the true world.
Don't make more of an event than it truely is.
Painted? Are you the same person??