My SO is so-so about masturbation. (How do you like that one...) I think I've seen her do it once, and she's seen me do it several times. (Together 8 yrs.) I fantasize about doing it in front of her (in the shower, in bed next to her), and occasionally the urge surfaces and I feel that if she's not okay with it, she not okay with me, so it happens. I find that she's willing to help me by kissing or fondling me while I'm doing it, but I'm never quite sure if she's turned on or just obliging me. I think the latter probably.
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