| My SO is so-so about masturbation.  (How do you like that one...)  I think I've seen her do it once, and she's seen me do it several times.  (Together 8 yrs.)  I fantasize about doing it in front of her (in the shower, in bed next to her), and occasionally the urge surfaces and I feel that if she's not okay with it, she not okay with me, so it happens.  I find that she's willing to help me by kissing or fondling me while I'm doing it, but I'm never quite sure if she's turned on or just obliging me.  I think the latter probably. |