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Originally Posted by hossified
so we finally had a 'talk' in a public place so there was no over-reacting. She was purposely being messy, as a way to piss me off, because whe was angry with me for some things that went on like 2 months ago. She isn't very good about discussing problems, and than everything seems to come out once every 2 months or so. So we are back to being 'good' for now, and I hope that we can talk more about stuff, so it doesn't bottleneck like this in the future......I gotta be honest though that I am not very hopeful that it actually will happen. She has been like this since I met her!
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Dude!!! Honestly??? why do you put up with it? I know you've been dating forever (hehe) but for her to be a bitch because of something that happened 2 months ago,,,,c'mon. You're not in jr or high school any more. You're freaken' 27.....it's time get over that and talk about things.
I've been with my gf for the last 6 years. She's moved in with me for the last 7 weeks. I'm a lot "cleaner" than her and at times I do nag (my bother always complains about that) but I hate living in a dirty place. After the first week of her moving in, I told her to pick up after herself and it's not the best, but she has improved a lot.
If your chick is not able extend the same respect to you, WHY PUT UP WITH IT?
(dude....when I read the cat close to the tv thing, I almost fainted, bc I too have a $2500 tv with my own cat.....)
I know it sounds hard, but you really might want to tell her....."look, we tried, but it's just not working out. You either grow up or we're done"
Also, just for shits and giggles, have her read this post. Walk away from her for couple of hours and let her reflect on what she has read. Hopefully it will open up her eyes. You're giving her so much and for her to be a bitch in return is not fair for you. You deserve better.