When I was living with my good friend and his live-in-girlfriend, we had much the same problem -- the girl was a freakin' slob! She would make breakfast, then leave her plate with dried egg, crusts of toast with jelly, etc. on the counter to petrify.
I tried very hard not to clean up after her and to ask her nicely to do so herself. She NEVER got the hint.
So one day I started piling those dishes under her side of their bed. After their bedroom started to smell and she found the dishes, she confronted me. I (politely, but in a "fuck-you" voice) told her that I didn't live that way and that if she wanted to, then she could do so in her own space.
Now, admittedly, this might not work for YOUR girlfriend. It did work for this gal. My buddy got a bit peeved at me (probably because his gf gave HIM the what-for), but my point got across.
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