As hard as it is, leave everything that is hers around and pick up and clean up just after yourself. After a while you can see if she will eventually do it and if she doesnt then you can point out during your 'talk' that everything that is laying around is hers. Nothing like a little demonstration. I think that this way you could show her just how much you are doing for her.
As for the TV put it up on the wall or something so the cat can't get to it.
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--Mark Twain
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