la petite moi

I hate lying as well. Typically, if faced with a situation where the truth is a little too brutal, I just steer around it with a neutral response. However, something like complimenting someone on a clothing choice (for example) to brighten their day does no harm.

Also, the truth really helps people open their eyes. About two or three weeks ago, my dad blurted out angrily that he thought I was messy, I used him for money, that I treat him like crap, etc. Well, you can imagine, I was upset and hurt. But after thinking about it, I realised he was right, and that I should probably improve my attitude.

It's really a judgment call- will this lie affect this person later along? Am I directly affecting something/someone by lying?