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Originally Posted by Johnny Rotten
"Notice" you? If you wait for a woman to give you a signal, you may indeed be cursing yourself to monkhood for the next several years. Two, everybody wants sex, and if you get it on a fairly regular basis, you won't have some crazy look in your eyes. Lastly, sex and attention are two very different situations. If you're a guy who has to be in a relationship to have sex with someone, then... I have some bad news. It's going to be a tough road ahead. Or consider this an opportunity to educate yourself in the ways of casual sex.
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It is not that I have to be in a relationship in order to be comfortable enough to have sex... but the only time I've been able to have sex on a more or less regular basis is when I've been in a relationship.
Unlike most other guys out there I don't have "
game" (or "
mojo" or whatever the hell it is most guys have that makes them attract women like moths to a burning lamp). When I started college I didn't have a crazed look to my eyes but all my female friends told me my intense desire was excessively palpable regardless of what I do. They told me that my horniness was visible in my eyes, visible in the way I walk, and that it was easy for them to feel it.
As for approaching women, past experience has shown me that whenever I try to approach a woman to get to know her she either turns me down hard becauseis turned off because she senses my underlying horniness or else she makes the effort to get to know me past the horniness but then only considers me as a "friend" with no possibility of ever being sexually attracted to me.
Casual sex is something I've only experienced on rare occasions. Back home I was so lame when it came to women and getting laid that the only way I ever got some was when I paid a hooker for it. I had no "
game" then, and i doubt I have any "
game" now.