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Originally Posted by Spicy McHaggis
This is why I always recomend people living together before they get married. I couldn't imagine moving in after the honeymoon and THEN realizing that you can't live together without driving each other nuts! Then it's too late to get out!
You never truly know someone until you share the same space
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Good advice, especially in this day and age. We seem to be more picky about the little things than our parents were. Of course, some couples are going to be able to work through the small stuff but if you start to have a pit in your stomach, my advice is to listen to it. I lived with my ex for a year and for 6 months I was sick everyday. Finally, I said to myself..."if you love someone...set them free" (Sting) and called it quits. Worst time of my life but after a while I realized I was glad I found out before we spent $20,000 on the marriage.
So, listen to your gut...it's a lot smarter than you think. Good luck.
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