| so we finally had a 'talk' in a public place so there was no over-reacting.  She was purposely being messy, as a way to piss me off, because whe was angry with me for some things that went on like 2 months ago.  She isn't very good about discussing problems, and than everything seems to come out once every 2 months or so.  So we are back to being 'good' for now, and I hope that we can talk more about stuff, so it doesn't bottleneck like this in the future......I gotta be honest though that I am not very hopeful that it actually will happen.  She has been like this since I met her! |