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My girlfriend doesn't like having sex after she comes, because she gets too wet and starts up a quiefing storm, but it might help you out. Try to go down on her because thats the easiest way i can suggest getting her off. Get her off and right after she might be sensitive but it usually doesnt last for long. Then just slip it in. If she doesn't have problems with getting wet then you shouldn't have to use KY and if yall are going in without condoms that makes it alot harder at first when a girl is tighter. Try using a lubricated condom because the friction will be much less and it will make you last longer most likely. I wouldnt ever use desensitising cream because you will go limp as soon as it starts working. I actually had a wierd experience with that stuff because i tried to have sex with it to impress a girl because previously i had been depressed and it shattered my confidence so i no longer lasted long. Well anyway story goes i went limp never came yada yada, but the next time we had sex i lasted 3 hours. It was wierd i think my confidence was just restored but its just kind of funny how that works out. Try condoms,getting her off first, and for lasting long i would try masterbating and right before you come stopping waiting for it to settle back in and starting again. Do that several times before you come it will teach you more about your penis and all the feelings associated and such. Good luck with it though.
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