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Originally Posted by Suave
Statutory rape is has very limited valid applications. There is a point, such as in this case (in my opinion of course) where it becomes stupid, and should no longer apply. A four year difference, that close to age of majority (for both of them) is almost nothing. Factor in the concpet that female mature faster sexually than males do, and you've got them on practically equal footing.
To the thread creator: I think it was a bad move to press charges purely on the father being 20 and your daughter being 16. I've read through here that he seems not to be a good father however, and that does change my perspective a bit. I don't know that pressing charged was still the best choice, as it did alienate your daughter, but certainly something should be done.
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i agree with suave..
personally when i was 13 i started dating a 17 year old...when he was 18 i was 14...we did end up having sex...i truly loved him ...even that young you can still have intense emotions... she had sex with someone a few years older and got pregnant...shes going to have to suffer for her actions for the rest of her life..did you ever think that she would need emtional support insted of trying to rip away a guy she cares about and deny her at least that for what? your own selfish reasons? were you there for her before? doesnt seem like it so why teh hell do you have the right to do this now...she wasnt raped she had sex and if you want to be there why cant you actually be there for her? my parents werent happy that i waas with an older guy..but they would never have pressed charges..they loved me enough to know that i needed him around and put aside their own feelings about it
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