I have been hit on a few times,
The first time was in Kuala Lumpur, completely unexpected. I was buying DVD's(yes the pirated kind sorry..) and when i turned round there was this Chinese dude, slightly taller than myself(5'10) and wearing what i thought at the time as weird clothes, which were probably really fashionable. But he was asking me where i was from, what i was doing, he even tried to invite himself out with myself and my friends that evening. I actually just told him to leave me alone, he wouldnt until i gave him my number, i gave him some BS number and he tried to call it there and then, obviously my phone didnt ring, and he got the picture. But it was only that evening when i was told by my friends that he was hitting on me. I didnt like it and to be honest it must be tough on girls when they get hit on by blokes. At least if there had been a problem and this guy had really given me trouble i could have smacked him in the face or something...
The most unsettling time though was in germnay at a live gig. There was this bloke with short "pink" hair, and built like a bear. Anyway long story short and all, myself and some friends were checking out the pics taken that evening on the web, and lo and behold there is a pic of him checking out my ass, about as creepy as you get and caught on camera...
Also it is interesting that you guys accept drinks from men. I dont want to sterotype gay men but of the 99% of decent honest gay guys out there, there will be that one percent who will offer to buy you a drink and then spike it. As a rule i buy my drinks and then watch it as best i can.
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