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raeanna74 · 03-01-2005, 09:38 AM

it seems a little like you, uptown, have based your perception of what a woman should look like on porn. Just judging from the fact that you looked at it to see how you'd look in mature porn. Mature porn, young woman in porn, it doesn't matter, it's all edited, fixed, and touched up so many ways that what you see is nothing like it should look. In some of the mature porn I believe that some men DO like that floppy breast or things like that so they exaggerate some of those features as well. I don't care if you're young or old sex is messy, floppy, sweaty bodies, slapping and sliding together. It's not like they show in the porn videos in the least. We don't have sex because of our looks. We have sex to give each other pleasure. Men may appreciate a good looking body but guess what - there are so few of us even at 21 who have bodies such as you see in porn that most guys would never get a girl like that. They know that. They also know they have problems with their own bodies. I've seen some guys with some wierd looking feet. We are all different and the more we accept our own bodies the more our guys can appreciate our looks. I'm pretty sure that I speak for a lot of guys that they might even go for a woman who wasn't the vision of perfection over a model if the model had the personality of a plant while the other woman had a sense of humor and fun.

I wear a bikini at times even though I have many physical flaws. I'm not significantly overweight and I probably wouldn't wear a bikini if I had enough weight that my sides had folds in the skin but then again I'd still wear a one piece. I don't go to the beach though to sit in the sun and show off - I go to swim mostly. I wear shorts but I don't wear belly baring shirts simply cause I'm more self concious about my stomach. I will probably not wear a bikini this summer because I'm still getting used to my red 3" hernia scar in the center of my abs. Once that fades to a grey line instead of an angry red bump I will be going back to a bikini.

I have sex for the fun and pleasure involved for myself and my then partner. I don't have it to show off my looks. I've seen men who were unable to get it up for me when I was only 27. It wasn't then about my looks. It was because as men age they have more trouble getting hard. Especially if they're taking blood pressure medication. Men don't really work solely on visual stimulation contrary to what one may think. I've seen more than one guy have trouble and then come back another time and have no trouble at all. It's a matter of physical health and sometimes emotional stress on their bodies and the older they get the harder it is for them to get everything in their bodies to work the way they want to. Taking viagra will not help a guy get hard if he isn't turned on. Just read the package - it works WITH arousal and does not just give them a raging hard on with no assistence.

03-01-2005, 09:38 AM	#45 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	it seems a little like you, uptown, have based your perception of what a woman should look like on porn. Just judging from the fact that you looked at it to see how you'd look in mature porn. Mature porn, young woman in porn, it doesn't matter, it's all edited, fixed, and touched up so many ways that what you see is nothing like it should look. In some of the mature porn I believe that some men DO like that floppy breast or things like that so they exaggerate some of those features as well. I don't care if you're young or old sex is messy, floppy, sweaty bodies, slapping and sliding together. It's not like they show in the porn videos in the least. We don't have sex because of our looks. We have sex to give each other pleasure. Men may appreciate a good looking body but guess what - there are so few of us even at 21 who have bodies such as you see in porn that most guys would never get a girl like that. They know that. They also know they have problems with their own bodies. I've seen some guys with some wierd looking feet. We are all different and the more we accept our own bodies the more our guys can appreciate our looks. I'm pretty sure that I speak for a lot of guys that they might even go for a woman who wasn't the vision of perfection over a model if the model had the personality of a plant while the other woman had a sense of humor and fun. I wear a bikini at times even though I have many physical flaws. I'm not significantly overweight and I probably wouldn't wear a bikini if I had enough weight that my sides had folds in the skin but then again I'd still wear a one piece. I don't go to the beach though to sit in the sun and show off - I go to swim mostly. I wear shorts but I don't wear belly baring shirts simply cause I'm more self concious about my stomach. I will probably not wear a bikini this summer because I'm still getting used to my red 3" hernia scar in the center of my abs. Once that fades to a grey line instead of an angry red bump I will be going back to a bikini. I have sex for the fun and pleasure involved for myself and my then partner. I don't have it to show off my looks. I've seen men who were unable to get it up for me when I was only 27. It wasn't then about my looks. It was because as men age they have more trouble getting hard. Especially if they're taking blood pressure medication. Men don't really work solely on visual stimulation contrary to what one may think. I've seen more than one guy have trouble and then come back another time and have no trouble at all. It's a matter of physical health and sometimes emotional stress on their bodies and the older they get the harder it is for them to get everything in their bodies to work the way they want to. Taking viagra will not help a guy get hard if he isn't turned on. Just read the package - it works WITH arousal and does not just give them a raging hard on with no assistence. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.