I agree with Shanifaye that Uptown has allowed herself to be a victim of old-time, meritless thinking. How sad that the misguidance we were given in our youth by those with such negative opinions has ruled her mindset now.
And comparing oneself negatively to things she sought out to justify her beliefs is just as sad.
There is probably no one here who doesn't have something they feel is unattractive (my stomach is a nightmare, for instance). But we are, thankfully, sexual beings who would rather embrace those things we love about ourselves and it is this attitude that men of any substance at all seem to find most attractive. Love yourself, embrace your imperfections, accept that you are a living, sexual being and feel a power rise that allows you to show love freely to others. Meritless 'I am worthless because this body is not perfect' thinking is self-depriving and creeps into other aspects of your life voraciously.
On a side note: I would like to thank everyone for their wonderful compliments and thank you for accepting me for the woman I am. (Now if y'all will excuse me I have a new set of photos swirling in my head that I must create
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