I will admit that there was a time when I thought 50 was old, or that nobody my mom's age (or my mom for that matter) should ever have sex. But now I realize that neither beauty nor sexuality are defined by age. I'm less than halfway to 50, but I have seen some beautiful women that are 50 and above, and some (what's a nice way to say this) not so pretty women that are under 25. If you want to give up on sexuality and give up on your body, you can do that at any age, but I think putting a boundary like 50 or menopause and saying no more sex after that is silly. If any of you really have any doubts that someone 50 can look beautiful and be sensual and sexual, you need to look at some of ngdawg's pictures - if you didn't know the age, you would never guess first thing, and do you seriously expect someone that looks like that to shut down her sex life? I know I won't if I look like that at 50! One last thing, I volunteered one summer at a retirement home, and trust me there is plenty of sex going on in the over 50 (over 70) crowd, and it's not just men that are having the sex!
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