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I continue to age, yet I still feel 17 in many ways...
My boyfriend is 44, eight years my senior and his sarcasm regarding society's expectation that a woman needs to look young until the day she dies fills me with love for his total independence of thought. For my own vanity, I like looking good...it makes me feel good, doesn't matter what other people think although it's fun to be hit on by guys in their early 20's who don't know my age. I always get a kick out of the fact that thay all say the same thing: "You don't look that old" HA! Just you wait kiddo, it goes by faster than you can imagine!! These boys without fail move away to seek younger companions...funny.
I've been involved with men in their 20's recently and there's really no comparison in my opinion to the character that developes with age as compared to a rather shallow view of women and sexuality that often is present in younger men. I love my bf. He's hot, smart and secure in himself, as I've learned to be. I dig his cute pot belly and he loves my ass (celulite and all). I want to stay in shape for health reasons and my own sense of vanity, but realistically being loved and loving in return is more of a turn-on than the exterior presentation of one's self.
Over 50?? Granny? Oy Vey!!!
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Believe nothing, even if I tell it to you, unless it meets with your own good common sense and experience. - Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha)
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