Live your life however. It shows maturity to accept that everyone is entitled to their opinion. Past opinions, what I know to be true may not be true to you and we each learn to deal with that dynamic. I know that the majority of people who are obese could overcome it and get their wheight down to a healthy level if they had the commitment and desire to do so even if it took years. If they don't, that's fine. They live with the consequences of being obese. I have been overwheight and through being active at work and casually lifting wheights, I turned my 6'7" body into the mean fighting machine it is now.
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