It's all in the timing... I dated a great girl for 8 years, but was convinced that I would never get married. I didn't want kids and just couldn't see the point of marriage unless that was the case. She decided that she wanted kids and marriage etc... and so we went our seperate ways. That was 2 years ago, and literally in the last couple of weeks I have found my ideas changing about having a family. All of a sudden I find myself thinking about it a lot, and so I wouldn't be surprised if I met somebody and made the plunge within a year or so.
Nobody could have gotten me there before I was ready, though.
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Oft expectation fails...
and most oft there Where most it promises
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