Originally Posted by uptown

My point is that physical attraction is an important part of sex and a lot of men are not only not attracted to older women,they are actively physically repulsed by them and it's not even by concious response.You can love someone very much but no longer desire them physically and once physical desire is totally gone,well you're in much the same place as a beloved dog.
He might try to overcome his aversion to the sight of you naked but it'll feel like mercy sex at best, obligation,let's get this over with chore sex at worst.