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hmmm....my SO is a nutirtionist/dietician, so i know a little about this...
i do think that your comments were a bit harsh..and the joking? thats a BIG no no. sarcasm and humour doesnt work in these cases when it comes to self esteem.. it actually works the other way..usually the person becomes paranoid and self concious of eating in front of you..then you'll be left with a closet eater... im sure you rather a woman who ate in front of you rather than behind your back!
as for her apetite...maybe her working out makes her hungry.. i know when i work out i get hungrier... also, metabolism increases with excercise, so its natural to eat more when your excercising.
it may also be shes eating too much of high energy/high carb/high protein /high fat diet....could be lots of things why she doesnt lose weight...
if your really worried about what she eats and why she eats, and you actually talk to her about her weight (no jokes and sarcasm are not a way of talking), then if shes comfortable talking to a proffessional then, maybe see a dietician/nutrtionist.
They are trained to analyze ppl diets and their mentality..most eating disorders are phsychological as well as physiological...so you should take that into consideration...
as a last note, weightloss is basic maths..energy intake should be less than energy output in order to lose wieght...but its not that easy in real life.... as u get lots of differnt issues arising..so theres no one diet or one way of dieting that is the correct one...
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