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I think some of you are looking to closely at certain comments.. I think he's just trying to find a way to help her cause. I've been with a few girls who have "a few extra pounds" and weight is a sensitive subject. I wanted to support her in her cause to lose weight, even though I liked her the way she was. But its a very touchy subject, because men(including myself) find the worst possible thing to say. "I love you no matter what you look like" which would normally be a very loving statemnt..beyond looks...right?? no.... instead its take as... "so you are saying that I AM fat" or something to that effect.
Thes best thing for you to do, is as long as she is being healthy about it, and you honestly don't mind the weight that she is, let her do her thing, and make her decisions and support any healthy ideas that she has. IMO its best not to even touch the weight issue with women.
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