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So what're you going to do now? She hasn't replied in two days, do you call her or just leave it be? If she doesn't mention the e-mail next time you see her, but is still friendly, do you ask if she got it and possibly make it awkward, or just forget it and miss the opportunity?
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OK, I have news. So, after two days and still no answer, I can only conclude that she doesn't check her university e-mail address at all (being an Erasmus exchange student and all). With the preface of getting some photos of the event from the guy, we chatted a bit, so I'm cool with that, having made a good impression.
I casually asked him whether he has any phone number of hers, he said he doesn't. Then I thought, well WTF, if I don't stir the waters a bit, nothing is going to come out of it for sure. I told him that I sent her an email but she probably doesn't check her account, and bingo, he knew that she uses her own e-mail from her home university

(told you so). Now, this is completely surreal IMO: I told him to remind her of checking her email

if he sees her (which he does, everyday).
Good or whack? Who knows, at least there is a possibility of communicating. About the middleman problem, I don't think there's going to be any weird situations, this guy seems cool.
Extra added bonus: there might be a possibility of going again snowboarding together this weekend
Not all hope is lost. Even if nothing comes out of this story, the moral is: ALWAYS grab the chance to get the phone number when the moment is right. Otherwise you end up doing crazy stuff, such as those described herein
