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ebbs and flows. we have been married for a little over year, and together for more than 3 years. we seem to have a pretty good natural rhythm in our sex life, in that sometimes we have sex everyday, sometimes twice a week, but we always have ENOUGH sex, and it is always very high quality.
what i will say, is that we have a very very good relationship that sex is only part of. we do a lot of other things such as eating out, weekends away, going out drinking / casino nights, shopping together, hell just sitting around talking about things until 3 in the morning. what i am trying to say is dont confuse frequency of sex with intimacy, its only a small part of what makes up this interesting road of living your life jointly with another person... i think to assess a marriage, or your marriage, you have to look at the whole package.
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"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them, make them."
George Bernard Shaw
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