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hmm... I get this everynow and then, especially during high stress days. Humans in general tend to focus on negative things over positive things.. What do you hear more often, the Doctor who screwed up, or the doctor who has never messed up and pulled of this miricle surgury. What do you hear more, the parents that have done an awsome job raising their kids, or the deadbeats? You never walk down the street gossiping that a celeb's marriage is going so well.. more often.. "did you hear Jlo and Ben aflek divorced"
Battling with the voices depends on how important the issue is. Is this self esteem? did yo screw up at work? with the wife?
I try to just figure it out.. are the voices helping you make your decision or are they just hindering you? Most of the time things arent as bad as they seem. Look at past problems, and ask youself... was it worth all that stress?? The voices are good sometimes because they keep you from telling your boss how you really feel, or punching the cop in the face that gave you the speeding ticket...
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