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hmm.. Interesting topic, thanks for the opportunity to let us men have an opinion here... I don't think that anyone should be having sex because it's a marital duty. You do it because you love the person and want to be with them. As far as physical attractiveness goes, it helps.. but we all know that you would have to be pretty shallow to not wanting to be with the person you stated you would love, hold, "sickness" and Health, till death. If you can't get into sex at an older age after gaining a few pounds, sagging, or wrinkles, then were you in the relationship for sex or for love? On the oppossite side of the coin, how can you have sex with someone you don't find attractive... I mean, if your partner became utterly disgusting.. gaining massive weight.. then.. ok..maybe..I can see not being physically attracted, and maybe unable to "get it up" but from a mans POV, we take it when we can get it.. If I can get it up when I'm 80, I'll still be pumping away at my wife... However I foresee her not being interested in sex at that age...
Aside from marriage.. for single people, every person has their attraction.. I' was with a 56 y/o woman when I was 19. She was slammin hot! you would never have known.. matter of fact, I did'nt till I saw pictures of her grandchildren on her wall !
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