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raeanna74 · 02-23-2005, 05:25 AM

I actually can't imagine a woman of 50 or perhaps even 60 who takes care of her body NOT being attractive.

The woman I've seen in our swinging exploits who are of the 45 on up age rage have some sags, stretch marks, veins, and wrinkles still have all the working parts needed for SEX. Their vaginas don's "sag" or get loose. Their breasts are still soft to the touch and the lips aren't sagged so they can't kiss. They rejoice in the fact that they don't have to worry about BC pills and can just enjoy sex for the pleasure of it. Procreation is no longer a worry for them.

I've seen quite a few younger men in the 20-30 age range pursue one of these menopausal women even though at these parties there's a whole range of woman available. These women exsude a confidence and joy in life that is attractive despite their apparent age. Just last weekend I saw a 35 yr old pursue a woman who had just turned 50 because she was attractive to him. There were other woman around and other men to entertain her as well it was in no way mercy sex it was pure attraction. Nothing wrong with that.

I am only 30, well 31 nexct week, and I have stretch marks galore from pregnancy as well as varicose veins from the same. I still have acne as well. I have scars now from c-section, mole removals (precancerous) and from a recent hernia. I try to keep fit physically but there are battle scars and marks that show. What am I supposed to do? I'm not even close to 50 yet but time is already showing. Oh and how about the fact that the women in my family tend to hit pre-menopause around 35 or so. My mother started out with hot flashes then and found out at 39 that she could no longer have the 3rd child she wanted. So do I only have about 9-10 more years of sex in my life. NOT for ME. I don't think so. If that's what makes your life easier to let go of sex once you hit a certain point that do so. But for me I will enjoy sexual activity so long as my husband or other men are willing.

You're only as old as you think you are.

btw - Thanks averette for starting this thread - I apologize to kollege gall for going off on a tangent on her thread.

02-23-2005, 05:25 AM	#14 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	I actually can't imagine a woman of 50 or perhaps even 60 who takes care of her body NOT being attractive. The woman I've seen in our swinging exploits who are of the 45 on up age rage have some sags, stretch marks, veins, and wrinkles still have all the working parts needed for SEX. Their vaginas don's "sag" or get loose. Their breasts are still soft to the touch and the lips aren't sagged so they can't kiss. They rejoice in the fact that they don't have to worry about BC pills and can just enjoy sex for the pleasure of it. Procreation is no longer a worry for them. I've seen quite a few younger men in the 20-30 age range pursue one of these menopausal women even though at these parties there's a whole range of woman available. These women exsude a confidence and joy in life that is attractive despite their apparent age. Just last weekend I saw a 35 yr old pursue a woman who had just turned 50 because she was attractive to him. There were other woman around and other men to entertain her as well it was in no way mercy sex it was pure attraction. Nothing wrong with that. I am only 30, well 31 nexct week, and I have stretch marks galore from pregnancy as well as varicose veins from the same. I still have acne as well. I have scars now from c-section, mole removals (precancerous) and from a recent hernia. I try to keep fit physically but there are battle scars and marks that show. What am I supposed to do? I'm not even close to 50 yet but time is already showing. Oh and how about the fact that the women in my family tend to hit pre-menopause around 35 or so. My mother started out with hot flashes then and found out at 39 that she could no longer have the 3rd child she wanted. So do I only have about 9-10 more years of sex in my life. NOT for ME. I don't think so. If that's what makes your life easier to let go of sex once you hit a certain point that do so. But for me I will enjoy sexual activity so long as my husband or other men are willing. You're only as old as you think you are. btw - Thanks averette for starting this thread - I apologize to kollege gall for going off on a tangent on her thread. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.