First of all, thanks again for all of the help all of you all have been giving here. But I'm afraid that I am still in need of your guidance.
I am hanging out with a group of folks who are all quite nice except for this one person. He seems nice at times, but he does strange things to assert power over me. In class if we’re sitting next to each other, he will move his leg right into mine and kind of rock it sideways to let me know it’s there. He also puts his arm over the arm rest into my arm and will also rock it sideways to let me know it’s there. I’m pretty sure he is doing this intentionally, but his motive is still a complete mystery. But that’s not what I’m concerned about. What I am concerned about is being able to resolve this issue without appearing hostile towards him and without blowing it out of proportion.
I completely suck at confronting people even if I know it’s for my own good (like in this case). Usually I will get all emotional and will have millions of gallons of adrenaline pumping through me by the time I’m done. Any suggestions on making an appropriate and effective confrontation the next time this happens? What specifically should I say? Oh, and I'm a guy, so this isn't flirting or anything.
Thanks thanks thanks.
