actually we both lived on our own and moved to this new place together....and yes I used to complain prior becasue she was extra messy. Again, I clean up right away after myself out of repsect for somwone else living with me, so they don't have to deal with my crap in theri way....and when she leaves her stuff out, I take it as disrespect. I would prefer that instead of ME having to pick up after her, that she would clean up better herself, because she knows it bugs me sooo much. I'm thinking why should I have to be the one to bend over backwards on this issue, when I'm doing it with so many other things??? It's not like this is a little quirk, its hygenic!
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