maleficent

maybe you shouldnt be living with them then... better to find out before getting married than after.

You really have to accept a person as they are, warts and all, if this is such a major issue to you... then maybe you should cut your losses now.

But... if you have strong feelings for this person, dare I say Love this person, and you must otherwise why would you be living with her, I'd think you would want to find a way to make it work. If something as simple as a chart helps, don't think of it as parenting her, think of it as coaching her... or just do it yourself and don't let it raise your blood pressure.

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